October 23, 2014
My dear sweet Carolyn,
Words escape me ~ I haven’t known you very long at all but I have a solid glimpse of your heart and the love you have for your Bob and family.
I am so very sorry that you have lost your soulmate, your partner, on this earthly plain but know that he is with you~ there is music playing and a fire. I caught a glimpse of the life you shared with him through the generous words of your friends on Bob’s Caring Bridge Site.
I read the following at my Aunt Judy’s outdoor service and I read it often when I am missing someone whom I can no longer see~ I want to share it with you~
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.
~ by Mary Elizabeth Frye
May God bless you, your children and your entire family~ May God hold you when you need it most and may he walk beside you as you journey into a place that you never imagined you would travel. While God is on one side, know that Bob is on the other to walk with you into your new life. I am praying for strength and courage and grace...of which you already have so much~
Lunch~ coffee~ a chat~ anytime you need it.